Modeling Behavior
Modeling, also known as observational learning, is a social learning theory. It describes the process of how desired behavior is taught by example. This is sometimes intentional, other times incidental. As children develop, they constantly watch the behavior of others. “Children learn from the important adults in their lives. They learn what being a woman or a man means. They also learn about relationships. Children learn how adults treat each other. They watch and may copy what adults say and do. A parent’s actions and words tell the child what is important in the family, what the family values are. Children learn about respect, for example, by watching their parents respect each other, the children, and others in their lives.” (Dinkmeyer, 1997)
See also:
Attachment
Mutual Regulation/Co-Regulation
For further reading:
Parenting Young Children: Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (STEP) of Children Under Six, by Don Dinkmeyer Sr. et al. STEP Publishers.